Thought process is something very difficult to go through I must say, deep digging into your brain.Left Brain or Right brain, analysis could be wrong at some point of time.Well, thinking is a never ending story.One can imagine and react to any possible extent.Now when we talk about thought process on a whole,it involves great efforts to actually understand the person going through it.
As a single child, I can very conveniently say that I have been going through process...mm well..at young age itself I obeyed the rules of life. Ever since three happily learned the practicalities.Never learned how to share though!! There were times when it was hard on me to share feelings with someone.Busy parents and me introvert quiet child,didn't know what to do!!
Later things started improving.Mom sent me to a good school, where all good manners and etiquette were taught along with certain norms of the society.At a tender age did things on my own,basically independent not financially though.The heck was to gulp feelings , suppress them and get frustrated yet keep quiet!!This would sometimes lead to bad performance in the school.Well the competition in this era is unbeatable.So one has to simply go through this.
Now the option left was to share your thoughts with your friends.Aha! that is still challenging.Now that depends how close you are to your friend being an introvert.Getting along with your friend is a great deal.Its quite possible to have difference of opinion.Normally the single child tends to be sensitive.The friend has be trustworthy and most importantly willing to give time;Listen and understand!!Wavelength and frequency also got to match.Its not necessary that everybody has to understand.There were times when I told my friends...Hey put your leg in my shoe!! yeah lax...may be your right!!!We talk about feelings, but you have to keep them under control when your responsibilities involve.Your priorities change from time to time. I played a role of single child to my parents.Today I'm compulsively driven to handle the domestics at an early age being a single.A lady of the house who has to take care of her father and herself.
Life has been promising. So far so good.All smiles!!!!
As a single child, I can very conveniently say that I have been going through process...mm well..at young age itself I obeyed the rules of life. Ever since three happily learned the practicalities.Never learned how to share though!! There were times when it was hard on me to share feelings with someone.Busy parents and me introvert quiet child,didn't know what to do!!
Later things started improving.Mom sent me to a good school, where all good manners and etiquette were taught along with certain norms of the society.At a tender age did things on my own,basically independent not financially though.The heck was to gulp feelings , suppress them and get frustrated yet keep quiet!!This would sometimes lead to bad performance in the school.Well the competition in this era is unbeatable.So one has to simply go through this.
Now the option left was to share your thoughts with your friends.Aha! that is still challenging.Now that depends how close you are to your friend being an introvert.Getting along with your friend is a great deal.Its quite possible to have difference of opinion.Normally the single child tends to be sensitive.The friend has be trustworthy and most importantly willing to give time;Listen and understand!!Wavelength and frequency also got to match.Its not necessary that everybody has to understand.There were times when I told my friends...Hey put your leg in my shoe!! yeah lax...may be your right!!!We talk about feelings, but you have to keep them under control when your responsibilities involve.Your priorities change from time to time. I played a role of single child to my parents.Today I'm compulsively driven to handle the domestics at an early age being a single.A lady of the house who has to take care of her father and herself.
Life has been promising. So far so good.All smiles!!!!
5 comments:
Good start 'lady of the house' :) Hoping to see more from you...
Nice writeup, keep writing!
Hey Laxmi... Thats a wonderfull start to your blog... Keep blogging... :)
Cheers
Shyam
great goin.. out there in d middle u 4 yourself...bol :)
hey, Niranjani here... ur blog's nice too/. and thanks for the comment u posted on my blog ..:-) I couldn't reply to ur scrap.. is it bcos of ur orkut settings? Anyway, thanks :-D
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