Love........ or .....Crushes...!!!!

Love and Crushes are two entirely different concepts... Love is a weird phenomenon and people put up all possible phrases and adjectives around it... Love is eternal... Love is blind... Love is life... And the list goes on... The only love I'm aware of is the moment when I see myself in the mirror in the morning just before I start the day... "Happy Realization" as one could call it!

Cinematic love is good to watch but in real life we do what our brains say rather what our heart speaks! Don't we? On the other hand, crushes are quite acceptable I guess... You can acceptably have crush over somebody JUST like that as soon as your hormones do some magic within you in a matter of a few seconds. The person may be a Movie star....guy next door! Hormones honestly don't care...

Quite opposite to this, love can be a stress all together. And the best (worst?!) part, it is assumed that the other person need not acknowledge the love... One way traffic is the most accident prone when it comes to love. LOL In the best case, things are still bad because getting along for a prolonged period of time is a big question mark and takes loads of commitment. Not to mention the ego clashes, wavelength mismatch and tuning to the right spectrum. One important factor that decides the risk here is age. Teenagers are rash lovers and mostly end up in an accident while maturity lets people choose better persons but still without the guarantee of finding the right one.

We try to get into details of Love and get poetic about it. But reality is hardly so. When we actually look in to practicality,everything is considered - caste, creed , class and oh yeah MONEY!! The last one has become the most important factor since it decides the graph of your life :) The most fashioned love these days is falling for your office colleague as it is a safe bet. Gone are the days when we believed in love at first sight and instant love affairs.

All said and done.....Love is interpersonal with feelings and emotions that may or may not be reciprocated. But "what kind of feelings and emotions constitute love; and even better what is love?" seems to be a frequent debate vis-a-vis Crush that is clearly defined and documented :D

Thought Process

Thought process is something very difficult to go through I must say, deep digging into your brain.Left Brain or Right brain, analysis could be wrong at some point of time.Well, thinking is a never ending story.One can imagine and react to any possible extent.Now when we talk about thought process on a whole,it involves great efforts to actually understand the person going through it.
As a single child, I can very conveniently say that I have been going through process...mm well..at young age itself I obeyed the rules of life. Ever since three happily learned the practicalities.Never learned how to share though!! There were times when it was hard on me to share feelings with someone.Busy parents and me introvert quiet child,didn't know what to do!!
Later things started improving.Mom sent me to a good school, where all good manners and etiquette were taught along with certain norms of the society.At a tender age did things on my own,basically independent not financially though.The heck was to gulp feelings , suppress them and get frustrated yet keep quiet!!This would sometimes lead to bad performance in the school.Well the competition in this era is unbeatable.So one has to simply go through this.
Now the option left was to share your thoughts with your friends.Aha! that is still challenging.Now that depends how close you are to your friend being an introvert.Getting along with your friend is a great deal.Its quite possible to have difference of opinion.Normally the single child tends to be sensitive.The friend has be trustworthy and most importantly willing to give time;Listen and understand!!Wavelength and frequency also got to match.Its not necessary that everybody has to understand.There were times when I told my friends...Hey put your leg in my shoe!! yeah lax...may be your right!!!We talk about feelings, but you have to keep them under control when your responsibilities involve.Your priorities change from time to time. I played a role of single child to my parents.Today I'm compulsively driven to handle the domestics at an early age being a single.A lady of the house who has to take care of her father and herself.
Life has been promising. So far so good.All smiles!!!!